I love the internet and the feeling of help and support that I find through some of my blogging friends. Bear with me please....this is a bit of a story. Yesterday my 21 year old woke me up with a text saying a college friend of hers had received a call in the night that his father had passed away from a sudden heart attack. This man was probably about my husband's and my age. His oldest son is 21, like our oldest daughter. Anyway, she texted Joe and me, on her way to class, to let us know about this death and to tell us that she loved us. She is 21 and just learned that sometimes calls come in the middle of the night when you least expect them and they can carry devastating, tragic news. I talked with her then, after her class, and she asked me what she could say, how should she reach out...she didn't want to do the wrong thing. And I told her a simple, "thinking of you" or I'm so sorry that you have to go through this..." is all that is needed. That it is a beginning and it is honest and from the heart. I say this because I lost my own father around her age and my friends didn't know what to say, they didn't reach out. We all lived in different towns, were graduating and starting our lives and some important people in my life, through their youthfulness, didn't reach out-just really, I believe now, didn't know what to say. ..how to make "that" call. Last year, over 25 years after my dad's death, a girl that I hadn't heard from who was a close friend all through high school called me from across the country, after finding my name through the internet. She called to apologise for not being there 26 years ago when my dad died. She apologized for being young, and awkward. And I appreciated her call.
After I talked with my daughter I scrolled through my "blog list" updates....just blindly looking at new postings and eventually went to
Jill Foster's "Inspired by..." blog and she was focusing on a beautiful card by "Mel"
HERE . Jill then went on to show her card that she made
HERE . And I looked at Jill's card, which was inspired by a card made by a crafter who lives a world away from me in Australia and I saw in her card the fences and the landscape of the farms around me. Now, I am not a good sympathy card person. My colors tend to be too bright, and, sympathy cards are a hard card to make. You know, they just are. But I saw Jill's card and knew this man who died to be a farmer and then my card was "made"....all before I sat down to my crafting table. And my sentiment? The exact same thing I said to my daughter...be honest, let your friend know that you are "thinking of them". So, thank you Jill, and thank you Mel (whose card it turns out was inspired by another crafter, Kathy Racoosin, living in another part of our world. So, I went and looked at Kathy's card
HERE and went pretty much full circle as Kathy used the same stamp that Jill used. I ended up using/borrowing elements from Kathy, Mel and Jill's cards. Thank you, all three of you, thank you all for helping me to make a difficult card. I appreciate it.
I made two-slightly different than each other. I hope I don't have to use the second one for quite awhile.
Be well,
Sheila